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Text copyright © 2010 by Diana Richardson and Michael Richardson
Art copyright © 2004, 2010 by Diana Richardson
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Richardson, Diana. Tantric sex for men : making love a meditation / Diana Richardson and Michael
Richardson.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
eISBN-13: 978-1-59477-977-0
1. Sex instruction for men. 2. Sex instruction—Religious aspects—Tantrism. I. Richardson, Michael.
II. Title.
HQ36.R524 2010
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Document Outline
Cover Image
Title Page
Dedication
Preface by Michael Richardson
Introduction
RELAXING INSTEAD OF PERFORMING
HUMANS NEED MORE SEX
EXPLORATION AND VULNERABILITY
SEXUAL CONDITIONING AND HOW IT SHAPES US
EXCITEMENT CAUSES PREMATURE EJACULATION
SENSATION REDUCES SENSITIVITY
WOMEN’S SEXUAL RELUCTANCE
LOSS OF ENERGY AFTER EJACULATION
CONTAINING THE LIFE FORCE
BENEFITS OF COOLING DOWN
MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME
SHIFT FROM SENSATION TO SENSITIVITY
SEXUAL CONDITIONING INFLUENCES SEXUAL BEHAVIOR
DEVELOPING SENSITIVITY THROUGH BEING CONSCIOUS
A HIGHLY SENSITIVE MAGNET
AWARENESS
MOVEMENT
THE ART OF CONSCIOUS PENETRATION
SPONTANEOUS ERECTION AND IMPOTENCE
MAKE LOVE DATES
FOREPLAY
TANTRIC KISSING
POSITIONS DURING SEX
VAGINA, NOT CLITORIS
THE PENIS AS HEALING CATALYST
STAYING PRESENT
DEEP, SUSTAINED PENETRATION
ALLOW OLD FEELINGS TO SURFACE
POSITIONS SUITABLE FOR DEEP, SUSTAINED PENETRATION
PARTNERING WITH WOMEN
DISTINGUISHING BETWEEN EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS
OVERCOMING FEARS CREATED BY LACK OF LOVE
GOLDEN RULES FOR GETTING RID OF EMOTION
THE ROLE OF EMOTIONS IN SEX
EXPRESSING FEELINGS IN THE PRESENT
HUMANS NEED LOVEMAKING FOR CONTINUED WELL-BEING
MALE AUTHORITY THROUGH TAKING RESPONSIBLE ACTION
Male Burden of Performance
Involuntary Ejaculation and Desensitization
Ejaculation Is Not Male Orgasm
The Equal and Opposite Force of the Female Environment
The Penis—A Potent Electromagnetic Instrument
Awareness, Movement, Penetration, and Erection
Dates, Foreplay, Kissing, and Positions
Sexual Healing and Male Authority
Mastering Love and Overcoming Emotions
Personal Experiences
Exercises for Improving Your Awareness and Sensitivity
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